I used to be afraid to mention the voices in my head, but after reading about other authors having mental arguments with their characters, which sometimes slip out into the ‘real’ world, I don’t feel so badly about. One daughter thinks I channel long dead couples, another just thinks I come up with interesting stories about people in ‘olden’ times. Either way, I am given little choice in the subjects or what they want in the end – a happy ever after life with their chosen love.
So as a pantser, I often am as surprised at the outcome as my readers. I mean we all know that romance is about finding ‘the happy ever after” and finding the man/woman of their dreams. They know they aren’t perfect. They know there are things that get in the way, but by the end, everyone is happy and in love and looking forward to a long life together.